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Wednesday, 26 June 2013
Monday, 24 June 2013
Open-mindedness: More about lifestyle
I
first wanted the second text in our open-mindedness project to be about the
many different ways of being open-minded, to show how many aspects of life this
topic plays an important role in. However, the more I think about it, the
longer the list grows. So, to give it time to reach near-full length, and still
keep this project flowing, I built a little on what Hanna wrote in her introduction.
This text will also be available in her blog: A Little Blog About Words.
Hanna already explained what we mean by
being open-minded in the introductory post. An open-minded person is someone
who is willing to consider and
appreciate other lifestyles than his/her own. There is no requirement to
let them influence your own life; but you ought to accept and respect the
choices other people have made in their lives without passing hasty judgement.
Among our friends and acquaintances, Hanna and I have noticed that several people blindly consider their own lifestyle and/or world view to be the correct one. Some may be aware of this mindless conviction, others may just hold that belief subconsciously. We can find it rather irritating to have a conversation about important life questions if every idea we utter seems to shatter into dust against the solid wall that is the mind of our peer.
However, that is not the reason Hanna and I feel so strongly about this project. We feel sorry for them, really. We believe that their stubbornness will restrict their lives, fettering their minds to a single world, a single life. If you think that your lifestyle is perfect, you will be too complacent to see ways it could be improved. Just as life always can get worse, it can also always get better!
I personally believe that if you do not
strive to become a better person, if you are too satisfied with yourself, you
will stop changing. This is natural: why would you want to change if you are
perfect? But, if you don’t try to improve, it means you have essentially stuck
in the state you were in. I think that your
life freezes the moment you stop wanting to change. You may end up in a
self-destructive stalemate while the rest of the world moves on around you. A
very sad thought, I find.
I believe this can be avoided by
approaching people with different ways of living and being open to what their
lives can teach you about yours. Imagine meeting a highly religious family that
spends three hours every day praying and meditating. If you laugh at them
because that is a ridiculous waste of time, then it is very possible live a
rather stressful life with little spare time to enjoy living it; maybe you
should actually consider starting to meditate yourself to calm down and
appreciate your life more!
If you reflect upon your own lifestyle and world view through the eyes of other people, and listen with open ears, you may even find that you enjoy the realisation that your life might not be as good as you thought it to be! I know from my own experience that there are many ways of discovering that my habits, morals or ideologies are lacking, and most are pretty unpleasant. For example, when someone I care about stops talking to me for something I have said or done without thinking; or when I loose a good job because I did not appreciate it enough to make efforts to keep it; or when I have too much fun playing with my friends, loose control and accidentally hurt someone. When things like these happen, I get a sort of shock wake-up and the suffocating guilt is what triggers me to try to make amends and make sure I never repeat the mistake.
If you reflect upon your own lifestyle and world view through the eyes of other people, and listen with open ears, you may even find that you enjoy the realisation that your life might not be as good as you thought it to be! I know from my own experience that there are many ways of discovering that my habits, morals or ideologies are lacking, and most are pretty unpleasant. For example, when someone I care about stops talking to me for something I have said or done without thinking; or when I loose a good job because I did not appreciate it enough to make efforts to keep it; or when I have too much fun playing with my friends, loose control and accidentally hurt someone. When things like these happen, I get a sort of shock wake-up and the suffocating guilt is what triggers me to try to make amends and make sure I never repeat the mistake.
If I could learn to avoid such disasters
simply by being open to what other people can tell of their own experiences,
and by being open to understanding how different people feel about and react to
different things, I would gladly embrace
this pain-free way of learning.
So, to put what I want to say with this
post in a simple sentence: be open-minded for your own good!
Saturday, 15 June 2013
Open-mindeness: Post 1
My good friend Hanna and I have been discussing our feelings toward the importance of open-mindedness: how essential it is for tolerance and acceptance of the vast diversity of people that we live among. We are both active bloogers (honest, I do write quite a lot for my paleo blog at least), so we thought of making an open-mindeness project. Hanna took the initiative to introduce us to it.
One of the things which Sebastian and I spent a lot of time talking about during my visit in Bristol earlier this week was the importance of open-mindedness. I know that I have talked about this many times before, and some of you might think “Alright, we get it, stop nagging about it”, but if that’s how you feel I’m afraid that I’m going to have to disappoint you. For me, this is one of the most important issues there are, and I will probably continue to bring it up for as long as I live because unfortunately I doubt that there will be much change in people’s attitudes during my lifetime. Sebastian shares many of my opinions about this and we have therefore decided that we are going to collaborate and write a series of posts, in which we will discuss different aspects of open-mindedness.
To start this project, I would like to begin by trying to explain to you what I mean when I say open-mindedness. I don’t think it is necessary to be open to doing anything you are asked to be open-minded; there is no need to do things which you might not feel comfortable with doing. What you need to be able to do however, is in many ways more challenging and uncomfortable than all those other things put together: You need to be able to accept that although you might feel like you know how you want to live, there may be others who have chosen different life-styles and who are also perfectly happy with their lives. Every single person is shaped by so many different factors ranging from genes to cultural heritage, parental influences, school, friends etc. There is rarely a right or wrong way in which to live. To be open-minded is in my mind the ability to acknowledge this and to try to see beyond people’s choices and life-style and instead focus on their personalities. The truth is that most people are nice if you approach them with an open and accepting attitude.
To be open-minded does not mean that you need to love everyone you meet. You are bound to feel like you have very little in common with many people, and you are probably not going to like everyone’s personality and if that is the case you don’t have to be friends with them. However, you need to understand that this does not necessarily mean that you are living the right way and the other person has chosen the wrong life-style. I have previously said that to be open-minded you don’t have to change your world, but you need to be able to take a step out of it now and then and visit the “parallel worlds” in which the people around you live.
Sebastian has a quite sarcastic and brutal sense of humor sometimes, and when I met some of his university friends I noticed that a couple of them seemed to be taking him too seriously. I really liked these people, and I thought it was a shame if they had misunderstood what kind of person Sebastian is. Afterwards we talked about this and Sebastian said that he knows that he should probably show more clearly when he is joking and when he is being serious. I agree about that and I think that would help others understand him better. However, at the same time Sebastian’s humor is a large part his identity and I would find it sad if he would have to change that completely just because others want him to be different. In situations like these I think open-mindedness can build bridges, prevent misunderstandings and help people connect in spite of differences. In this case, Sebastian needs to understand that with some people he might have to switch down his humour a bit and his friends need to accept that Sebastian has chosen to face life with a very light-hearted attitude because it is a life-style that suits him.
Of course, nobody is perfect. For instance I personally – ironically – often find it hard not to judge close-mindedness. This in turn makes me less open-minded myself! I try my best to at least be aware of this however, and that is a good start. I hope that by writing about it and giving you everyday examples, Sebastian and I will be able to provoke your thoughts a bit too and make you reflect upon what attitudes you might have and why you hold certain opinions!
This is all I had to say for now though,
Hanna
This was also published in Hanna's blog: A Little Blog About Words
One of the things which Sebastian and I spent a lot of time talking about during my visit in Bristol earlier this week was the importance of open-mindedness. I know that I have talked about this many times before, and some of you might think “Alright, we get it, stop nagging about it”, but if that’s how you feel I’m afraid that I’m going to have to disappoint you. For me, this is one of the most important issues there are, and I will probably continue to bring it up for as long as I live because unfortunately I doubt that there will be much change in people’s attitudes during my lifetime. Sebastian shares many of my opinions about this and we have therefore decided that we are going to collaborate and write a series of posts, in which we will discuss different aspects of open-mindedness.
To start this project, I would like to begin by trying to explain to you what I mean when I say open-mindedness. I don’t think it is necessary to be open to doing anything you are asked to be open-minded; there is no need to do things which you might not feel comfortable with doing. What you need to be able to do however, is in many ways more challenging and uncomfortable than all those other things put together: You need to be able to accept that although you might feel like you know how you want to live, there may be others who have chosen different life-styles and who are also perfectly happy with their lives. Every single person is shaped by so many different factors ranging from genes to cultural heritage, parental influences, school, friends etc. There is rarely a right or wrong way in which to live. To be open-minded is in my mind the ability to acknowledge this and to try to see beyond people’s choices and life-style and instead focus on their personalities. The truth is that most people are nice if you approach them with an open and accepting attitude.
To be open-minded does not mean that you need to love everyone you meet. You are bound to feel like you have very little in common with many people, and you are probably not going to like everyone’s personality and if that is the case you don’t have to be friends with them. However, you need to understand that this does not necessarily mean that you are living the right way and the other person has chosen the wrong life-style. I have previously said that to be open-minded you don’t have to change your world, but you need to be able to take a step out of it now and then and visit the “parallel worlds” in which the people around you live.
This guy has misunderstood
the concept of open-mindedness…
Sebastian has a quite sarcastic and brutal sense of humor sometimes, and when I met some of his university friends I noticed that a couple of them seemed to be taking him too seriously. I really liked these people, and I thought it was a shame if they had misunderstood what kind of person Sebastian is. Afterwards we talked about this and Sebastian said that he knows that he should probably show more clearly when he is joking and when he is being serious. I agree about that and I think that would help others understand him better. However, at the same time Sebastian’s humor is a large part his identity and I would find it sad if he would have to change that completely just because others want him to be different. In situations like these I think open-mindedness can build bridges, prevent misunderstandings and help people connect in spite of differences. In this case, Sebastian needs to understand that with some people he might have to switch down his humour a bit and his friends need to accept that Sebastian has chosen to face life with a very light-hearted attitude because it is a life-style that suits him.
Of course, nobody is perfect. For instance I personally – ironically – often find it hard not to judge close-mindedness. This in turn makes me less open-minded myself! I try my best to at least be aware of this however, and that is a good start. I hope that by writing about it and giving you everyday examples, Sebastian and I will be able to provoke your thoughts a bit too and make you reflect upon what attitudes you might have and why you hold certain opinions!
This is all I had to say for now though,
Hanna
This was also published in Hanna's blog: A Little Blog About Words
Sunday, 2 June 2013
Learning from the past: polar ice caps and climate chaos
Months ago, I wrote a second article for The Natural Planet school magazine, but it has not been published and I suspect the editor rejected it without informing me. Then, I decided to include it in this blog, seeing as I have not written anything for ages.
Since I was working against an upper word limit, I had to skipp the explanations to many of the processes involved, but if anything is unclear, please ask and I'll be happy to try to explain more comprehensively.
Since I was working against an upper word limit, I had to skipp the explanations to many of the processes involved, but if anything is unclear, please ask and I'll be happy to try to explain more comprehensively.
We
are all aware that the ice sheets at the poles are melting as you are reading
this. We hear about its consequences on a regular basis: that the sea levels
will rise, flooding cities and crop fields, that the polar bears’ natural habitats
will be destroyed, and so on. However, exactly what will change in the future
is very hard to tell. Maybe, just maybe, we could find some clues in
prehistory: if we study what happened when the ice caps first formed and in what ways the world
changed in response, perhaps we could tell something about what we can expect when we cause the reverse.
Before the Eocene epoch (56-34 million
years ago), Earth was in a greenhouse phase: high concentrations of atmospheric
carbon dioxide and the absence of glaciers created a warm, humid world with
productive oceans and dense tropical forests teeming with tiny mammals – no
larger than modern rodents – since being small makes it easier to move through
the thick vegetation.
What caused the Earth to cool down in
mid-Eocene is not crystal clear, but it is likely a combination of several
factors. A typical explanation is relating it to the Milankovitch cycles, a
mathematical model for how the Earth’s orbit, change in tilt of the axis, and
the way the axis wobbles, control surface temperatures.
In addition, the previous greenhouse
conditions caused huge blooms of plants and algae; many of these were not
decomposed, for some reason, so huge amounts of carbon were removed from the
carbon cycle and atmospheric carbon dioxide decreased noticeably. (Today, by
burning fossil fuels, we are reinserting massive amounts of carbon into the
cycle, while deforestation and ocean pollution kills off the organisms that can
sequester it from the air, which is why we see such an increase in carbon
dioxide.)
Also, the movement of the continents caused
changes in the ocean currents in such a way that the global heat transport to
Antarctica was hindered: as South America and Tasmania detached from
Antarctica, the Antarctic Circumpolar Current – a current of cold water that encircles
the continent – effectively isolated the Antarctic region from warm water
currents. With no heat influx, the continent quickly froze. Other tectonic
rearrangements (e.g. the closure of the Tethys sea) may be accountable for the
glaciers in the North Pole.
The polar glaciations bound huge amounts of
water into ice, so, naturally, the sea levels regressed and the air was
stripped of moisture. The next epoch, the Oligocene, thus saw the tropical
jungles everywhere replaced by vast plains of grass, which is more resilient in
dry, cold conditions. On these open spaces, the mammals grew much larger, and
with tough, nutrient-poor grass as the main food, certain mammals with more
sophisticated stomachs (especially the ruminants, such as deer, cows and goats)
did extremely well and replaced their predecessors as the dominant herbivores.
This might not sound very dramatic, but
this transition was actually a minor extinction
event, where as much as 20% of all life at that time may have become
extinct. The ones that did well did so because others could not cope with the
drastic changes!
As the Eocene life perished, the plants and
animals we are more familiar with today – most notably, grasses and cattle –
emerged. They are adapted to such conditions, and, if we reverse the processes
that brought them success, we could see our main food stocks crumble. Warmer,
more moist conditions may favour increased yield in our crops, but it will
favour interfering organisms such as weeds and insects more, forcing us to
expend more resources – probably oil and nasty chemicals – on crop management. Even
though we take special care of the crops and cattle so that they have little
competition, the more unsuitable the global climate becomes, the harder it will
be to maintain the food production, which is already dwindling.
Tuesday, 21 May 2013
Monday, 22 April 2013
Earth Day
Many people that are bitter or cynical about Valentine's day argue that it is ridiculous to have a designated day where you are supposed to treat your loved one as he/she deserves, when you should be doing that every day.
I cannot say I agree with that: indeed, you should always treat your partner well, and extra well during Valentine's day! It is not about being decent one day of the year and an arse for the rest, but of taking a special day to devote to him/her specially.
I think exactly the same way about similar events, such as the International Women's Day (March 8), Children's Day (November 20), and, indeed Earth Day (April 22).
The problem is that I have no partner, and I never remember these dates, so I end up not doing anything unusual every year... However, I tell myself I respect and look after women, children and the environment well enough normally, so my conscience is not really scarred by forgetting these arbitrary 'special' days. If I behaved worse from day to day, I might be more ashamed, but at least I do a little something all the time, so those days where so may others do so much more, I hope my small part contriubtes with something.
The aim of this blog is or has come to be to inspire both small everyday efforts and occasional major contributions. I know that I have been inactive of late, but other things need attention as well (studies, practical things related to accomodation, work, social activities, etc.). Having realised that goal has not been fulfilled – not even sure if I should say it has been working in that direction at all – I should have a big rethink of what I could do. Maybe include smaller posts with tips about minor activities that can help improve living standards?
I am not giving up on this blog, and now that I can feel a tad of inspiration coming back, maybe I can launch a resurgence. In honour of Earth Day!
I cannot say I agree with that: indeed, you should always treat your partner well, and extra well during Valentine's day! It is not about being decent one day of the year and an arse for the rest, but of taking a special day to devote to him/her specially.
I think exactly the same way about similar events, such as the International Women's Day (March 8), Children's Day (November 20), and, indeed Earth Day (April 22).
The problem is that I have no partner, and I never remember these dates, so I end up not doing anything unusual every year... However, I tell myself I respect and look after women, children and the environment well enough normally, so my conscience is not really scarred by forgetting these arbitrary 'special' days. If I behaved worse from day to day, I might be more ashamed, but at least I do a little something all the time, so those days where so may others do so much more, I hope my small part contriubtes with something.
The aim of this blog is or has come to be to inspire both small everyday efforts and occasional major contributions. I know that I have been inactive of late, but other things need attention as well (studies, practical things related to accomodation, work, social activities, etc.). Having realised that goal has not been fulfilled – not even sure if I should say it has been working in that direction at all – I should have a big rethink of what I could do. Maybe include smaller posts with tips about minor activities that can help improve living standards?
I am not giving up on this blog, and now that I can feel a tad of inspiration coming back, maybe I can launch a resurgence. In honour of Earth Day!
Sunday, 14 April 2013
Learning from Spartacus
Yesterday night, I watched the final
episode of the new tv-series of Spartacus
(Spartacus: Blood and Sand 2010, Spartacus: Gods of the Arena 2011, Spartacus: Vengeance 2012, and Spartacus: War of the Damned 2013), the
gladiator that sparked the greatest slave
rebellion in the history of the Roman Empire. First now, I realised his
greatness.
The tv-show is gruesomely violent and gory,
which might be off-putting to viewers with sensible stomachs, and to many it
might appear that the show is all about the moviemakers having fun producing
exaggeratedly bloody fight scenes with arms dropping off, heads and bodies
cleaved in halves, and soldiers being slashed so hard they fly away. However,
the mature viewer will value the battles as being metaphorical, as well as amazingly well done. (Actually, I love the
battles because I appreciate both interpretations.)
Regardless, what I want to discuss here is
one of the main philosophical messages in this show, which might not be
apparent at first.
I am sure that most of the events in the
three and a half seasons (Spartacus: Gods
of the Arena is short and only counts as a mini-series) are speculative and
have little factual support, since written records and archeological finds from
that period are scarce, but I still want to discuss the fictional character Spartacus in the series (i.e. regardless of how
it reflects the real person), because it is he who inspired my thoughts.
Spartacus, acted
by Liam McIntyre in the final two seasons, develops into a much more epic
character as the story evolves than I would ever have expected.
My mom is not fond of the tale of
Spartacus, because he suffers and struggles so much throughout his entire life,
which bluntly ends in failure. In the tv-show, he is captured with his wife;
she is enslaved and probably raped countless times until she finally dies,
while Spartacus is sold as a gladiator, savagely drilled to fight and endure
physical pain, and forced to kill his only friend by a whim of his arrogant and
ambitious master.
Andy Whitfield
played the role of Spartacus in the first season, but died of
lymphoma (cancer
in white blood cells).
When learning that the master he has been
bowing like a dog to was the one that had his wife murdered, Spartacus spurs a
gladiator uprising, slaughters all Roman nobles within reach. Now craving
revenge on the Roman praetor that captured him and his wife, he builds an army
of fighting slaves (whose chaotic nature challenge his patience more than a few
times) to match the Roman forces sent to destroy him. When victorious,
Spartacus continues to swell his army, now with the unfeasible goal of crushing
the Roman Empire. After years of fighting bloody battles and struggling to give
his people what they need (food, shelter, etc.) and want (some desire only to
fight endlessly, others dream of living their lives in freedom and peace), the
rebels are defeated at the Siler River, and it turns out that all the pain and
losses (on both sides) had been in vain.
Spartacus has all
the reasons to be angry… Image from
The plot is indeed tragic, but that makes
Spartacus the more admirable! What I thought of when I was watching the last
episode, and the thing I want to emphasise here, is that throughout his time, Spartacus had ample opportunities to run away and settle down for a long, restful
life, something he unquestionably earned for what he has sacrificed, but he never abandoned the fight for his
ideal – that all have the right to live free.
Although he had
many opportunities, Spartacus never took the easy
way out, but stood
persistently for his ideal that no
man or woman should be a slave.
Image from http://spartacus.wikia.com/wiki/Spartacus
Spartacus fights against the Roman people
to free the slaves from oppression and injustice. He fights for the value and
dignity of every human being, while many others fight because they are angry and
enjoy killing Romans. (Spartacus appears to enjoy the slaughter, but I suspect
that it is only to keep his much-needed companions keen and engaged.)
There seems to be no reason for Spartacus
to pursue his struggle against the Roman Empire, other than that he believes so
strongly that it is the right thing to do. He does not revel in pleasure of
killing his hated enemies, he knows that no amount of slaughter will bring back
the loved ones he already has lost, and he really has no moral obligation to devote
himself to this campaign.
So, what I read into this is that Spartacus made it the purpose of his life to fight for the dignity of all men and women. He is a man who has lost
everything, but instead of crying in a corner, he selflessly makes it his life’s
quest to protect all others who have suffered similar fates. And, despite all
instances where most people would give up and retreat to live in peace and comfort,
he never fell to the temptation. This is the hallmark of a true hero.
For all he has
suffered, Spartacus’ spirit was never broken.
This is the hallmark of a true hero. And such people do exist today. From this day on, I will respect them
as I respect Spartacus, but more so because what they are doing for needing people
is real.
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